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<p dir="ltr">Family legacies are the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/discover-why-your-stories-matter" title="Family Legacy">stories</a>, values, traditions, and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-bring-memory-life" title="Family Legacy">memories</a> passed down from generation to generation. They are the tangible and intangible things that make up a family's history and help create a sense of continuity and familiarity.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A family legacy is a glue that binds a family together and provides a sense of identity, belonging and purpose. </p>
<h1 dir="ltr">Benefits of a Family Legacy</h1>
<p>There are many benefits of having a family legacy, such as:  </p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Connecting Us to the Past</h3>
<p>Learning about our family's history and traditions, we understand who we are and where we come from. This connection to our past is vital for younger generations who may feel disconnected from their family's history and traditions. </p>
<p>According to the <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/17/fashion/the-family-stories-that-bind-us-this-life.html" title="Family Legacy">New York Times</a>, “The more children knew about their family’s history, the stronger their sense of control over their lives, the higher their self-esteem, and the more successfully they believed their families functioned.”</p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Helping Us Understand Our Family's Beliefs </h3>
<p>By sharing values, experiences, and traditions, we gain insight into why we do what we do and what is <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/discover-why-your-stories-matter" title="Family Legacy">important</a> to us. In today's fast-paced and ever-changing world, losing sight of our values and beliefs is easy. </p>
<p>According to a study by professors <a href="https://www.echostories.com/family-stories-and-the-path-to-happiness/#:~:text=The%20study%20by%20professors%20Robyn,%2Dunderstanding%20and%20self%2Desteem." title="Family Legacy">Robyn Fivush and Marshall Duke</a>, “children who hear stories about stressful events in their families’ past told in an emotionally expressive way have higher levels of self-understanding and self-esteem."</p>
<p>Further research at <a href="https://news.emory.edu/stories/2020/04/esc_covid_19_family_stories/campus.html" title="Family Legacy">Emory University</a> found that 10-12-year-olds coped better when their families talked more coherently and emotionally about difficult family times than families that told less emotionally expressive and coherent stories about their challenges.</p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Being a Source of Inspiration and Motivation for Future Generations </h3>
<p>We can pass on valuable lessons and insights by sharing our successes and failures. This helps younger generations navigate <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/10-questions-ask-yourself-happy-life%C2%A0" title="Family Legacy">life's challenges and overcome obstacles</a>. Family legacies instill pride and responsibility in future generations, encouraging them to continue the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="Family Legacy">legacy</a> and pass it on to their children and grandchildren. </p>
<p>According to research at <a href="https://www.parentsleague.org/sites/default/files/Fivush_2021.pdf" title="Family Legacy">Emory University</a>, adolescents and young adults who know their <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="Family Legacy">grandparents</a>' lives, including details like where they were born, where they attended school, and what kind of work they did as children, have higher self-esteem, social skills, and academic competence, as well as lower levels of depression, anxiety, and aggressive behavior. They also have a greater sense of life's meaning and purpose. </p>
<h3 dir="ltr">Providing Comfort and Connection During Difficult Times</h3>
<p>A solid family legacy can provide stability and continuity when faced with a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/8-creative-ways-keep-memory-loved-one-alive" title="Family Legacy">loss</a> or a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/celebration-life-memory-book" title="Family Legacy">significant life transition</a>. They remind us that we are part of something larger than ourselves and have a rich history and tradition. </p>
<p>According to <a href="https://billhigh.com/legacy/family-stories-secret-sauce-keeping-together/#" title="Family Legacy">Bill High</a>, children who understand they are part of a bigger family narrative feel more confident and like they belong. They know they are a part of something greater than themselves and have a strong sense of "intergenerational self."</p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">How to Create Your Family Legacy</h1>
<p>There are a few steps you can follow to create your very own family legacy: </p>
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<p dir="ltr">To do this, research your family's ancestry, talk to older relatives, and gather photos and memorabilia! You will better understand your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-creating-family-memories%C2%A0" title="Family Legacy">family's roots and experiences</a> shaping your values and beliefs.</p>
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<h3 dir="ltr" role="presentation">Identify fundamental values and principles necessary to your family </h3>
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<p dir="ltr">These include hard work, perseverance, honesty, and kindness. By identifying these values, you can create a roadmap for your family's legacy, guiding future generations to live their lives.</p>
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<p dir="ltr">You can write a <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-create-memory-book%C2%A0" title="Family Legacy">family history book</a>, create a family tree, or document recipes and traditions. One platform for sharing <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-tips-collecting-family-stories" title="Family Legacy">family stories</a> and legacies is My Stories Matter, which allows families to share their stories, traditions, and experiences <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/need-facebook-alternative" title="Family Legacy">safely and securely</a>.</p>
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<p dir="ltr">Suppose you’re interested in collaborating on a family legacy with your family. In that case, use My Stories Matter, designed for collaboration - a fun and meaningful way to bring your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-recording-your-parents-life-stories-how-my-stories-matter-can-help" title="Family Legacy">family</a> together and strengthen your family's bonds.</p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">Examples of Family Legacies</h1>
<p>Family legacies take many forms, and there is no right or wrong way to create one. Here are a few examples of family legacies that you may find inspiring:</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Stories and Experiences: <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-relive-memory" title="Family Legacy">Recount </a>family history, such as how your grandparents met or when your family went camping and encountered a grizzly bear while on a hike!</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Recipes and Food Traditions: Share <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/scent-memory-and-proust-effect" title="Family Legacy">recipes</a> for your favorite dishes growing up, like your grandmother’s famous peach cobbler, accompanied by family games! Document the history of family meals, and pass down cooking techniques and tips.</p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Photographs and Other Memorabilia: Create photo albums, display family heirlooms, and share stories about objects passed down through the generations. An example is a time capsule full of your family’s most treasured souvenirs, such as engagement rings, postcards, letters, etc.. </p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Family Rituals and Celebrations: Celebrate those beachy summer <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog?page=4" title="Family Legacy">holidays</a>, or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="Family Legacy">share</a> family rituals such as that annual Christmas tree cutting or iconic family BBQ reunion with a grilling contest. </p>
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<h1 dir="ltr">Create Your Family Legacy on My Stories Matter</h1>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="Family Legacy">My Stories Matter</a> allows families to create a safe and secure digital archive of their family <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-best-tips-capturing-life-stories" title="Family Legacy">stories</a> and traditions, ensuring they are preserved and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-passing-down-life-lessons-how-my-stories-matter-can-help" title="Family Legacy">passed down</a> to future generations. Your legacy can be a source of inspiration, guidance, and motivation for your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. </p>
<p>So take the time to reflect on your family's history and traditions, and start <a href="https://linktr.ee/mystoriesmatter" title="Family Legacy">crafting</a> your family legacy today!</p>


The Glue that Binds a Family Together: Building a Family Legacy

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Family memories are some of the most precious things we have in life. They are the <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-tips-collecting-family-stories" title="family memories">stories</a>, moments, and experiences that bring us together, remind us of our origins, and shape who we are. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">What better way to preserve these memories than by <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/4-reasons-record-your-life" title="family memories">recording</a> them with My Stories Matter? My Stories Matter’s vast collection of prompts and easy-to-use interface makes it easy for the whole family to get involved. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Here are the key reasons why creating family memories today is so important! Get ready to sit down with <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="family memories">grandparents</a> and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/importance-recording-your-parents-life-stories-how-my-stories-matter-can-help" title="family memories">parents</a>, ask them about their past and life experiences, and piece together your family history puzzle. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">You'll learn more about your family and your place in the family. Recording and <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-relive-memory" title="family memories">reliving memories</a> are integral to the process. At My Stories Matter, we design our platform to be supportive and empowering. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="family memories">Sharing your family memories</a> can be a powerful way to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/7-fun-ways-connect-family-during-holidays" title="family memories">connect with others</a> and inspire them to explore their family's past. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">My Stories Matter's design service will make your <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-create-memory-book%C2%A0" title="family memories">family Life Stories Book</a> look stunning. Our experienced writers and designers will work with you to create a beautiful, <a href="https://book.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="family memories">personal family Life Stories Book</a> that you can treasure for years. Once your family Life Stories Book is complete, you can share it with loved ones or even make it public. You can also print a physical copy of your family memories, where you can flip through the pages whenever you want and even pass it down to <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="family memories">future generations</a>. </b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">Recording family memories with My Stories Matter is not only easy, but it's also a ton of fun. For example, when your grandma tells you how she met your grandpa for the first time or when your family recounts a family vacation. These moments can live in the pages of your family Life Stories Book.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f9b7fb2c-7fff-106b-f111-ef69ba93c22d">What are you waiting for? Don't let your family memories <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/6-ways-prevent-memory-loss-and-it-has-nothing-do-age" title="family memories">fade away</a>. Gather the family, <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="family memories">fire up</a> the My Stories Matter platform, and start recording them today! Trust us; your future self will thank you.</b></p>


The Importance of Creating Family Memories 

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Stories have been a fundamental part of human society for millennia. They have been used for entertainment, education, and cultural preservation. Beyond historical significance, they serve a profound personal and individual purpose.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">They even benefit businesses! For example, statistics show that storytelling can boost conversation rates by 30%. For more scientific facts about storytelling, visit <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/post/4-surprising-facts-about-storytelling" title="my stories matter">4 Surprising Facts about Storytelling</a>. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">But do our stories really matter? Read on to find out! </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">They reflect our experiences, our values, and our beliefs. They offer a glimpse into our innermost thoughts and feelings, allowing us better to understand ourselves and our place in the world.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Help Us to Connect with Others </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">We invite others into our lives by sharing our stories and asking them to share their experiences. Therefore, we can build relationships, foster empathy, and create a community.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Have the Power to Inspire and Motivate </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">By sharing our struggles and triumphs, we can help others see that they are not alone and can overcome adversity. This can provide a source of hope and encouragement for those facing similar challenges.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Can Educate and Inform</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">By sharing our knowledge and experiences, we can help others to learn and grow. This can be especially important when addressing complex or challenging issues, such as discrimination, inequality, or social injustice.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our Stories Can be a Source of Entertainment and Enjoyment</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Whether reading a novel, watching a movie, or listening to a podcast, stories can transport us to different worlds and immerse us in new experiences. Who doesn’t love to welcome an escape from everyday life for a source of enjoyment and entertainment?</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Your Stories Matter on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f">Our stories matter because they are a reflection of who we are; they help us to connect with others, they have the power to inspire and motivate, and they can educate and inform. Whether we are sharing our own stories or consuming the stories of others, they have the power to enrich our lives and make the world a better place.</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="my stories matter">My Stories Matter</a> is the best platform to write your stories, allowing you to reconnect with former pals and those who were always there for you. Remember that magical trip to the coast, Grand Canyon, or Christmas destination? My Stories Matter keeps those joyful memories in a safe place where you can easily access them.</b><br />
	<b id="docs-internal-guid-29eddedd-7fff-2151-e5b4-8b0aeb09405f"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="my stories matter">Sign up</a> for free today and start storytelling! </b></p>


Discover Why Your Stories Matter

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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">You have unique experiences and stories worth sharing and preserving as a military member. These stories can provide valuable insights and lessons for future generations and can also serve as a way to connect with others who have shared similar experiences. As we get older, our memories can fade, making it more difficult to recall specific details and experiences from our past.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Recording your military stories allows you to reflect on your service and experiences. This can be a therapeutic and healing process, as it will enable you to process and make sense of your experiences in a structured and meaningful way. It can also help you better understand your military time's impact on your life and how it has shaped you, giving you a sense of accomplishment and pride.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">But where to begin?</b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="military stories ">My Stories Matter</a> gives you some essential tips to get started! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Memory Cues </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">My Stories Matter has several features that make recording and sharing your stories easy. One of the key features is the ability to use memory cues to help you remember your experiences. This can include playable songs or photos that can help trigger memories and make it easier to recall your experiences in detail. This can be especially helpful for those who may have difficulty remembering certain aspects of their military time or want to ensure that their stories are as detailed and accurate as possible.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Collaboration </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Start reminiscing! My Stories Matter makes it easy to connect with others and share your stories in a collaborative environment. This provides a sense of community and support and can enrich and enhance your own stories by hearing the perspectives of others who have shared similar experiences.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Helpful Tips </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">My Stories Matter has several resources and tips to help you record your stories in the most effective way possible. These can include advice on organizing your thoughts, structuring your stories, and overcoming any challenges or obstacles, you may encounter. Whether you're a seasoned military veteran or a recruit just starting, My Stories Matter can provide the tools and support you need to record your military stories in an impactful way.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">Record your Military Stories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">By sharing your stories with others who have shared similar experiences, you can form relationships and bonds that offer support and camaraderie. This can be especially helpful for those who may feel isolated or disconnected from others and can give a sense of belonging and community.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5e71ca9b-7fff-93a6-8c34-13f9d0f91abd">With My Stories Matter, recording and sharing your stories has never been easier. So why not take the first step and start recording your military stories today?</b></p>


The Importance of Recording Your Military Stories and How My Stories Matter Can Help

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories is a meaningful way to preserve their memories and experiences for the long term. You can revisit those memories anytime and share your parent's experiences with others. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">But with so many options for recording your parent's life stories, it can be overwhelming to know where to start!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog" title="my stories matter">My Stories Matter</a> makes it easy and fun for parents to document and share their life stories online. With its user-friendly interface and secure platform, My Stories Matter provides a safe and private environment for recording your parent's life stories. This can be a great way to relive special moments with your parents, creating a sense of comfort and nostalgia.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Here are several great reasons to record your parent’s life stories!</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Bond with Your Parents </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Anyone you choose may read your stories; unlike most social media apps, My Stories Matter is tailored to your privacy. With My Stories Matter, you can share their stories with specific friends and family members or keep them private for enjoyment. This can be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and provide a sense of community. </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Gain Insight </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories allows you to learn more about your parent's experiences and life journeys. By documenting their stories, you can gain insight into their lives and the world they grew up in. This can provide valuable context for your own life, and it can also help you to understand your parent's perspective better.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Preserve Memories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Recording your parent's life stories can be a valuable tool for preserving their memories for future generations. By recording their memories on My Stories Matter, you can ensure that they are kept long-term and that future generations can enjoy them</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">Document Your Parent’s Life on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">How do you encourage your parents to document their life stories? One way is to talk to them and explain the benefits. You can also offer to help them with the process by providing a journal or recording device or sitting down with them and asking questions about their experiences. </b></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-f5b62c7f-7fff-39fa-6ebf-c21e077754e6">My Stories Matter lets you preserve all memories, not just your parents or <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/preserve-your-grandparents%E2%80%99-memories-my-stories-matter%C2%A0" title="parents life stories">grandparents</a>! While everything is fresh, start recording memories today and create a lasting family legacy. </b></p>


The Importance of Recording Your Parent's Life Stories: How My Stories Matter Can Help


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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">As our grandparent's age, it's essential to ensure their memories are preserved for future generations. Our grandparents have a wealth of knowledge and experiences, and their memories can give us a unique glimpse into the past. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">But as time passes, these memories can fade and be lost forever. Fortunately, here are a few tips on preserving your grandparents’ memories. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Let’s go! </b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Ask Questions</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">One of the best ways to preserve a grandparent's memories is to ask about their childhood, experiences during major historical events, or daily life. Asking questions can help jog our grandparent's memory and allow them to share their experiences with us.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Record Their Stories </b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Another way to preserve a grandparent's memories is to record them. This can be a written journal, voice recording, or video. Recording their stories allows us to capture their memories and enjoy them.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Share Their Stories</b></h2>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">In addition to recording their stories, it's also important to share them with others. Sharing a grandparent's memories with friends and family can help keep those memories alive and allow others to learn from and appreciate them. It can also be a great way to connect with others with similar experiences and foster a sense of community.</b></p>
<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd"><a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="grandparents' memories ">My Stories Matter</a> is an excellent resource for protecting a grandparent's memories. With its easy-to-use tools and secure platform, My Stories Matter makes it simple to record and share a grandparent's memories and stories.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ed5965c7-7fff-c2d2-856e-f35fd9367bdd">By asking questions, recording their stories, and sharing them with others, we can ensure our grandparents' memories are preserved for years to come. And with the help of a platform like My Stories Matter, preserving these memories can be fun and easy!</b></p>


Preserve your Grandparents’ Memories on My Stories Matter 

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">Passing down life lessons is an essential part of being a parent, mentor, or role model. By sharing our experiences and wisdom with the next generation, we can help them to navigate their own lives and make informed decisions. This can be a great way to give back and positively impact the world. But with so many life lessons to pass on, it can be overwhelming to know where to start.</b></p>

<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">My Stories Matter makes it easy and fun to document and share our life stories online. Its user-friendly interface and secure platform make it simple to capture and preserve our memories and experiences for the long term.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">By sharing our stories and experiences, we can foster a sense of community and support those going through similar experiences. This can be especially important for parents, who can use My Stories Matter to document their life lessons and share them with their children.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">Passing down life lessons allows us to reflect on our own experiences and learn from them. We can gain insight into our lives and the world around us. This can be a valuable tool for personal growth and development and help us better understand our perspectives and experiences.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">But what kind of life lessons should we be passing down? There are countless to pass on, but here are a few ideas to get you started:</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The value of education and lifelong learning</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The power of positive thinking and attitude</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of taking care of your health and well-being</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of relationships and communication</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The value of honesty and integrity</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The power of forgiveness and letting go</b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">The importance of staying true to yourself and your values</b></p>
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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-4da51fb6-7fff-f03c-fe25-de4551dcbe8a">These are just a few examples of the many life lessons we can pass down to the next generation. Start using <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="My Stories Matter">My Stories Matter</a> today!</b></p>


The Importance of Passing Down Life Lessons: How My Stories Matter Can Help

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Our views change as we gain experience, and old memories vanish as new ones replace them. Wouldn't it be nice if you could write down your memories immediately so you can hand them down to future generations? </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">In February 2010, scientist <a href="https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20191202-can-lifelogging-really-help-you-live-more-intensely" title="record your life">Morris Villarroel</a> did just that. He began his ambitious 10-year experiment of keeping a record of his life.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">"Wouldn't it be helpful to have a more thorough and tangible record of my life?" He thought. That way, he would benefit from remembering more of his history and how to make the most of his remaining time and live more purposefully.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">So he began taking notes about his whereabouts and activities throughout the day. Thanks to the reflections he recorded about his professional experiences, such as teaching classes and lecturing at conferences, he found he could gain more from those experiences. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Significant evidence shows that keeping a diary may <a href="https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/learning-by-thinking-how-reflection-improves-performance" title="record your life">improve happiness and life satisfaction. </a> For instance, researchers examined a group of participants and discovered that <a href="https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/learning-by-thinking-how-reflection-improves-performance" title="Record your life">keeping a daily notebook for only 10 minutes increased their performance by more than 20%</a>!</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-91b3bdc9-7fff-cdea-d713-d59b69223106">Here are four reasons to record your life, whether in an <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="record your life">autobiography</a>, journaling, or simply <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-relive-memory" title="record your life">saving your memories</a>.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">Leave a Legacy</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">In today’s fast-paced world, there never seems to be enough time to sit down with family and share stories about your upbringing, childhood years, or the life lessons you’ve accumulated. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">But by<a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-your-legacy-story" title="record your life"> recording your life story</a>, you'll help future generations better understand their origins. You can make it possible for them to know who you were, your life, and the moments that formed you. And you can impart your wisdom to make their lives easier.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c0302f47-7fff-ffc6-67fa-5fe81222f16e">A future great-grandchild might identify with your story or find inspiration that could change their life!</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Exercise Your Mind</b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Losing one’s memory is a common concern of people as they age. Exercising one’s mind is just as crucial as exercising one’s body. “Use it or lose it,” as the saying goes. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">Did you know that memoirs written by ordinary people, not celebrities, are the fast-growing genre of publishing today? Those authors are people, just like you. You have more to write about than you realize.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">You might think, “I’m not a writer,” or “I don’t know what to write about.” However, you don’t need to be a “gifted” writer to record your life. Your children and grandchildren will only care about “what” you wrote, not “how.”</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">There are many ways to find inspiration! <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/" title="record your life">My Stories Matter</a> has over a thousand prompts and cultural cues to trigger your memory and inspire writing. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-22ef4a54-7fff-58b1-c701-9cca02923ada">You can also upload your photos and bring them to life by telling the stories behind them!  <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-best-tips-capturing-life-stories" title="record your life">Tap into the ways</a> to record your life that suit you. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Raise Self-Awareness </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Self-awareness focuses on how you feel, act, and think. It all comes down to being aware of your psychological triggers and recurring behaviors.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-ac687ae6-7fff-869c-aa24-6b70551be1e4">Increasing self-awareness may promote empathy for others, acceptance, and new perspectives on life. A popular method to increase self-awareness is journaling or self-reflective writing. Making a timeline and looking back on your past experiences can help you to obtain fresh insight or healing.</b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">Preserve your Family History </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">Have you ever wondered where your talents, disposition, likes, and dislikes originate? You might uncover that information when you <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/sharing-memories-5-unique-ways-you-havent-thought" title="record your life">share your life stories with family members</a>. When you recollect the details and images of your loved ones, you may learn a lot about yourself. </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-056883ee-7fff-974f-b081-0738fdefe04b">What would life be like without those detours? These distinctions make a great story. That embarrassing childhood moment is now precious. <a href="https://www.mystoriesmatter.com/blog/5-tips-collecting-family-stories" title="record your life">Preserve your family history and pass on</a> the highs, lows, and in-between. </b></p>
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<h2 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">Record your Life on My Stories Matter </b></h2>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">My Stories Matter has thousands of prompts and cultural cues to help you record your life. You can: </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">Create a lasting legacy </b></p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-92818c7f-7fff-1ca9-383e-be9f8eaff8a8">You can easily record the memories of your life and your loved ones. Your children, and their children, will thank you.</b></p>


4 Reasons to Record Your Life

<h1>How to Write Your Legacy Story </h1>
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<p>When you think of “legacy stories,” do famous movie stars or historical figures come to mind? </p>
<p>A legacy story is much more than that - they are the story of your life, for you can offer something no one else can. For example, your relationships, accomplishments, failures, personality, and values differentiate you from others.</p>
<p>A legacy story is much like an <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="legacy story ">autobiography</a> or memoir, except more flexible in the direction you want to go.</p>
<p>Free yourself from your inner critic and, with this guide, learn how to write your legacy story today!</p>
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<h1>What are the Benefits of Writing a Legacy Story? </h1>
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<p>A legacy story: </p>
<p>• impacts those around you, such as family or friends </p>
<p>• shows what’s truly important to you or how much you learned</p>
<p>• provides insight or closure </p>
<p>• shows someone how much they mean to you </p>
<p>According to <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/146623-if-you-would-not-be-forgotten-as-soon-as-you" title="legacy story ">Benjamin Franklin</a>, “If you would not be forgotten as soon as you are dead, write something worth reading or do something worth writing.” </p>
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<h1>Where to Begin? </h1>
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<p>Set time apart to sit down once a week (or a month) and jot down anything noteworthy about your life.</p>
<p>Don’t wait!</p>
<p>As we grow older, we <a href="https://order.nia.nih.gov/sites/default/files/2018-02/Understanding-Memory-Loss.pdf" title="legacy story ">remember less</a>, so it’s essential to get everything out now while it's still fresh! </p>
<p>Start small, such as a specific memory, vignette, or scene. Pretend you’re writing a letter to your friend without the added pressure behind the word “legacy.” It doesn’t have to be anything monumental. </p>
<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> helps by asking specific questions, triggering the memory you want to recollect. </p>
<p>Some of these legacy-friendly prompts include: </p>
<p>• What are the most important lessons you learned in life? </p>
<p>• What is something you learned from a parent you never want to forget? </p>
<p>• Who has been a great inspiration to you? </p>
<p>• What is a significant risk you’ve taken in life? </p>
<p>• What was a tough obstacle in your life you had to overcome? </p>
<p>Answering questions like these will determine your legacy story and what you want to leave behind. </p>
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<h1>Get Organized </h1>
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<p>There is no right or wrong way to organize, but <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> has a timeline feature that collects, categorizes your entries, backs up, and saves your work, entirely private for your eyes! </p>
<p>If you don’t feel comfortable writing down your memories, don’t worry! Our voice recorder has you covered. You can also have a close friend or family member transcribe your stories if needed. </p>
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<h1>Collaborate</h1>
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<p>As you write about the past, reach out to someone specific to your legacy story and invite them to participate in it, whether scuba diving, pranking neighbors as children, or graduating high school. </p>
<p>Don’t forget to check your facts! Are the dates, times, and events accurate? Family members or friends can help fill in the blanks.</p>
<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> allows you to collaborate with anyone you choose. </p>
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<h1>Read and Listen </h1>
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<p>Reading or listening to others’ legacy stories will give you ideas. You can read strangers’ legacy stories on <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> or someone famous whose life inspires you. These are usually in the form of <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/how-write-autobiography" title="legacy story ">autobiographies</a>.</p>
<p>We all share everyday experiences and conflicts. People learn from each other, so when you write about how you overcome your life obstacles, you’re inspiring others how to as well. </p>
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<h1>Include Some Mementos  </h1>
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<p>If you’re struggling to remember particular memories you want to include in your legacy story, gather some souvenirs from the past, such as a keepsake. </p>
<p><a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24933516/" title="legacy story ">Mementos</a> help spark your memory. They can be <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797617694868?journalCode=pssa" title="legacy story ">photographs</a>, postcards, letters, tickets, souvenirs, gifts, etc., helping your stories flow and putting the reader in your shoes. Upload these photos on <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> and write around that memory. </p>
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<h1>Write Your Legacy Story on My Stories Matter </h1>
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<p><a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/about" title="legacy story ">My Stories Matter</a> is custom-built for your legacy story. You can add music, images, and text to your video or audio life story. Digital audio files can run along with family photos for an entertaining storyline. </p>
<p>A legacy story is vital because it’s a bit of your life written down, left to inspire. Many people wish they could have read the words of their grandparents, parents, aunts, or uncles who passed away and hadn’t told them much about their lives. </p>
<p>Don’t let your friends and family feel the same way! With a legacy story, you’ll always have the answers when your loved ones ask questions when you’re not around. </p>
<p>Your legacy story will live forever.</p>


How to Write Your Legacy Story

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<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5f0b1f2d-7fff-c02f-890f-95819b4f4133">Have you ever noticed that listening to songs from your childhood makes you nostalgic? Or how the smell of a family recipe reminds you of summers at your grandparents? </b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-5f0b1f2d-7fff-c02f-890f-95819b4f4133">Believe it or not, we can resurface our life stories by revisiting songs, sights, and smells associated with experiences! </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-41f08a60-7fff-0fdb-a4d8-0914baf668f3">Do you remember your favorite old Songs?</b></h1>
<p dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-41f08a60-7fff-0fdb-a4d8-0914baf668f3"> Sometimes those memory cues are a little too far, so to help you out, we have a digital memory lane at My Stories Matter that you can “walk” down. With playable songs on our timeline in the sidebar and pictures of nostalgic movies and events, it’s sure to help you remember many life stories. We discuss this concept more in-depth in <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/blog/tapping-memories-music" title="life stories">our other blog post</a>.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-267a9235-7fff-4a01-18ad-89443b5a98fa">Be ready to capture life stories as they come</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-46b2e4cc-7fff-c58d-d16a-3e7a573119ba">Did something pop up in your head? It is on the top right of your screen. You will find it in the same spot on our mobile app! Use MindPops to jot it down and finish it later.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-c39a9603-7fff-a406-ea0c-99100308dbeb">Who has the correct version of the event?</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-c39a9603-7fff-a406-ea0c-99100308dbeb">Noone’s memory is perfect. Most of our best life stories are ones we made with other people. If we work together, we can help paint the best picture of the memory. Collaboration can be found on the right side when you click ‘add a memory. </b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-50b3c5a5-7fff-da95-8c90-af0b3f34bcb2">Don’t worry about perfection</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-50b3c5a5-7fff-da95-8c90-af0b3f34bcb2">While grammar and spelling are essential in an academic and professional setting, it doesn't matter on My Stories Matter when capturing your life stories. Only you can choose who sees your personal life lessons when you add memory. We do not currently nor plan to sell your information to anyone.</b></p>
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<h1 dir="ltr"><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Organize into Collections</b></h1>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Group your memories into different categories! Like how you have folders of your dog pictures, you can also categorize your memories! Like your memories, we keep your memory collections private so only those you allow can see them.</b></p>
<p><b id="docs-internal-guid-9ec9c5cb-7fff-e612-50fe-e3c866144c61">Want to know more? Sign up at <a href="https://mystoriesmatter.com/user/register" title="life stories">MyStoriesMatter</a> today! You can also reach out to us for any questions or comments.</b></p>
